i met andy 14/2/98 we lived together from day 1 he was everything my lover friend and dad to my son the day we met was specail valetines day for 14 years we did everything together holidays visits then the day came when he was told he had bladder cancer our worldws turned upside down after two operations and chemo + radiotheraphy andrew lived for two years with blood transfusions every week he become so weak and spent more time in hospital than at home i stayed with him up until he gave his last breath my world had ended with him or so i thought but with the help and support from winstons wish and st davids hospice i today can say ive coped well ill ever forget andrew and will aways be there for anyone who has to cope with loss xx